Utah Mom Buying Porno in Plain Sight

Upset with the display of Pac Sun t-shirts, Utah mom Judy Cox went into the store and bought $567 worth of t shirts .  The series of printed t’s in Pac Sun’s Heartbreaker series feature images of women taken by artist by Van Styles of t-shirts.   They look like this:

Image 2-19-14 at 8.36 PM24 hours later, her story hit the news, went viral, and now everyone wants the shirts.

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Do I want legions of horny boys going through puberty at the local mall staring at these shirts? Nope.  So go on with your bad self , Jusy, for wanting to do what you could where you were.  That’s what  taking responsibility is all about.

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In the interest of fairness though, don’t blacklist Van Styles, the artist behind the series,  just yet.  Scrolling through his work at The Hundreds online magazine and his own personal pages, his work includes a wider set of subjects with some really beautiful work.

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Pushing sexually explicit images to teen boys–Pac Suns target audience–is a bad idea.  But here’s an interesting question for you:  what is the right place and space for sexual images?  Is there a right place and a right way to make images that are beautiful, sexy and PG13+?  If you think there is, please tweet Van Styles.

 

Must watch: Try This Instead!

There may not be a lot of room in big time mainstream media for breaking down stereotypes, but lots of web series are riding to the rescue with some fresh and interesting takes on race.  We heard from some of the first ladies of web wonderful-ness  last week.  New week, new web goodness for you.  Got two minutes?  Check out the latest:  “Try This Instead”.  If you love it, share it!

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Mistrial: Justice Denied

The jury is back in the Michael Dunn case, mistakenly dubbed the “Loud Music Case”.  A mistrial was declared on the main count:  the murder of  Jordan Davis.  Though he was found guilty on the lesser counts, the murder remains unresolved.  Once again, a young black man was killed, and the legal system supported his killer with the murky permissiveness of Stand your Ground.

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George Zimmerman’s attorney Mark O’Mara wondered aloud on CNN if “perhaps Stand Your Ground has emboldened Dunn and other people to take the law into their own hands.”  Just six months before, this same attorney defended Zimmerman’s right to hide behind the law as he stalked and killed Trayvon Martin.  O’Mara further stated that he sees racial disparity in the system “all the time.”

How can the man who defend the law say that he knows the system that spawned it is racist? How can the boy listening to his favorite music with his friends be cast as villain by this law before he is even old enough to vote?

How can we say we care about our children in a country where lax gun laws, over-permisive self defense laws and a climate ripe with hate of all stripes results in the death of hundreds of children and thousands of people every year?

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On the eve of Jordan Davis’ birthday, make a personal pledge that you will do what you can to stop the killing of young black men.  Get involved in nonprofits working to change gun laws and end Stand Your Ground.  Tell other people to get involved.  Talk to the people in your life about the impact of implicit and explicit racism on all people.  Hug the children in your life and teach them to fight for their rights.  Whatever you do, you can do something right now, this week, this year.

Scandal-less: Black Women Throw Down Behind The Camera

There’s lots that can be said about the need for more diversity in front of the camera.  An equally important issue that goes to the root of diversity in media is diversity behind the camera.  Having opportunities for writers, directors, producers and actors of all backgrounds helps to provide fertile ground to grow new kinds of stories with fresh voices.  Enter five fabulous black women making interesting and fresh stories representing some typically unheard voices.  Since mainstream media isn’t really open to being that fertile ground, these ladies have made their own space to grow.

Their candid conversation here on their experiences making some of their breakout hits informs, educates and inspires, so take the time to listen to these queens.

Thug / Life: When Keeping It Wrong Gets Real

Here’s that word again: thug.  You’ll remember that we talked about Seattle Seahawk’s Richard Sherman’s public skewering just a couple of weeks ago.  After a bragtastic post-game interview the twitter verse and TV were positivly abuzz with the word thug.

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 There was some debate, some finger pointing and–most coherent of all–Richard Sherman’s own thoughtful analysis that the word thug has come to stand in for the n word as acceptable hate speech against black men.

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To his point, a Google search of the word reports a sharp uptick in its use  in the last two decades.  Before you blame all that on hip hop, I’m pretty sure Fox news analysts who called Richard Sherman a thug aren’t bumping TuPac on the ride home.

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This week the word thug is on trial–literally–in the case of Florida v. Michael Dunn.  Dunn is charged with shooting into a car of 4 teens, killing 17 year-old Jordan Davis.  He is defending himself with an affirmative defense, claiming he shot the teen in self-defense under Florida’s  abominable controversial Stand Your Ground law.

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Rhonda Rouer testified in a Florida courtroom on Saturday in the trial of her fiancé.  Rouer testified that when she and Dunn pulled into the convenience store parking lot next to the victims’ Durango, he said to her, “I hate that thug music,” in reference to the music the teens were playing.  Lest you think this was an isolated “thug” and nothing should be made of it, consider this quote from Dunn himself:

The jail is full of blacks and they all act like thugs…. This may sound a bit radical, but if more people would arm themselves and kill these fucking idiots when they’re threatening you, eventually they may take the hint and change their behavior.

Dunn wrote those words from a jail cell where he sat charged with second-degree murder for killing a young boy whom he referred to as a thug just seconds before shooting him.

Sit with that irony for a second.

Words create the world around us.  Words are the material that we use to build societies.  Words like good, bad, man, woman, us and them set the boundaries of our culture, and help us decide what is worth doing and what isn’t, who deserves our compassion and who doesn’t.  Words matter.

Thug.  Trap.  Hood.  Gangsta.  Brute.  Beast.  Nigger.  These words are a chain tying men of African decent to centuries of oppression.  These words are used not in ignorance but presicely because they come packed with meaning, hate in four letters, a reminder of the persistence of racial prejudice and a time when such words were weapons wielded by lynch mobs.

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Now the words are on the stand.  They come out of Rhonda’s mouth and in four letters point an accusing finger at the only the threat in the parking lot that night:  Dunn’s own racism.  Before Dunn had any interaction with the four young boys in the truck next to him, he had called them thugs– the last word in a coded chain of hate words going back to this country’s worst hours.  In other times, a man might have chosen a rope, or a whip, but Dunn chose a gun, and decided  who would live and who would die.

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He was a grown man with a deadly weapon.  According to Dunn’s own testimony the boys turned down their music when he asked, but when he heard swearing a few moments later he stated “I wasn’t asking for any more favors.”  He decided the punishment for noise was death, then claimed stand your ground justified his actions.

Jordan-DavisIt’s 2014, not 1814, so we free people of all races have to make sure our imperfect union does what it can to realize the dream of all men and women being created equal and where we have the right to life, liberty and loud music if we choose.  Just like those men before him, we must hold Michael Dunn accountable for the racism and violence he visited on his victims.   Let’s pray the jury makes that gun toting thug aware of the weight of words with a simple “guilty.”

This is a (Wo)man’s World

Check out his viral video from France showing us life as a masculinist in a matriarchal world.  Sometimes it helps to just see things differently.  Watch the video then read more about the short, created in 2010 by Eleonore Pourriat, and the filmmaker’s surprise by it’s recent upworthiness.

Barbie and Honey Badger Don’t Give a Shit

Barbie, like honey badger,  is rocking a body-con black and white suit and just doesn’t give a shit.  Here’s Barbie appearing in the 2014 Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition.

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Before you say that Barbie is a horrible role model for young girls, and that those legs are no kind of real, know that Barbie doesn’t give a shit about your opinion of her.  Mattel says, “as a legend herself, and under criticism about her body and how she looks, posing in ‘Sports Illustrated Swimsuit’ gives Barbie and her fellow legends an opportunity to own who they are, celebrate what they have done, and be unapologetic.”   I think she doesn’t care about your opinion because she is a molded piece of plastic that has no brain or emotions.  The honey badger, on the other hand, doesn’t give a shit because he’s pretty bad-ass

One Word: Zombeavers

That’s right:  zombeavers.  as in zombie beavers and all the obvious jokes they come with.  Here is official proof that the zombie craze has jumped the shark.  In case you aren’t sure, YES, this is a real movie that  some people really spent  $2,000,000 making it.  Like you could spend 2 million on something better than animatronic undead mammals.